Quest for Her Heart - The Knight

The Quest for Her Heart: A Fantasy in Five Faces

Some say love is a straight path — a quest with one destination. But what if the one we seek wears many faces? This is the tale of Michael, a knight whose heart longed for a love deeper than time, more powerful than fate. His journey would take him across realms both magical and mortal, where five women would each steal his breath — and teach him something he didn’t yet know about love… and about himself.

As you turn each page in this story, you’ll meet her again and again… until at last, you understand.

Prologue: The Knight Who Dreamed of More
They called him brave. Loyal. Steadfast. But in the quiet hours, when the stars hummed and the world hushed, Michael longed for something no sword could win — not a battle, but a longing. He had heard stories of a woman who was more than beauty, more than magic… a woman made of moments, of mystery, of many truths. They said she lived in no one place, that no man could hold her — only hope to see her clearly. So, he left behind his title, his station, and the life he’d always known. Not to conquer. But to understand. To find her — all of her. And so, the quest began…
The Moonlit Oracle
On the 10th day of his journey, high atop a cliff bathed in silver moonlight, Michael sees a woman shrouded in velvet mystery. Michael climbs the cliff walls hearing the waves of the ocean breaking on the rocky terrain below. He finally reaches the top. He is mesmerized by her beauty. She speaks in riddles and circles and prophecy. Yet she does offer him one clear truth: “You must know me to love me… but do not expect to know me all at once.”
The Moonlit Oracle
“Love,” she says, “is not foretold. It is chosen.” Michael asks if he could be the one she could love. She smiles and summons him closer and just as his lips were about to touch hers, she vanished in the moonlit mist. Michael called out for her. He heard her voice faint and distant, "You must know all of me, find all of me." Michael was not sure he understood but he knew he must continue his quest.
The Queen of Embers
After days of travel, Michael came to a realm where he walked across miles and miles of scorched plains. He reached a palace ablaze in fire. As he enters the grand doors of the palace he is drawn to the firelit throne of a queen whose passion burns as bright as her eyes. She summons him to sit with her at the foot of her throne. He feels his passion for her rise in him. His desire for her builds and burns red hot inside him. She is regal, radiant, and untouchable — or so he thinks. Until her eyes soften.
The Queen of Embers
“Love is not weakness,” she tells him. “It’s the fire you survive together.” She dares him to face the flame of love—not the easy warmth, but the transformative blaze. Michael rises fearless to walk through the flames that surround her but just as his hand reaches to touch her cheek she vanishes into smoke and the flames are extinguished. He calls out for her, and he hears her voice faintly, "You must know all of me, find all of me, Michael!"
The Forest Enchantress
Michael continues on his quest and among the ancient trees and tangled roots of a magical forest, Michael finds her again, this time barefoot and wild, with secrets in her smile. She has flowers in her hair, she seems delicate and breakable. She speaks of love being patient, curious, and quietly blooming like moss beneath shadowed trees. He hears a flock of Starlings fly overhead, and he looks up to see them. When his gaze comes back to rest on her she is gone. He cries out to her and he hears her voice summon him, "I am here Michael." He walks toward the light that breaks through the curtain of trees and vines.
The Forest Enchantress
As he breaks into the light she is there waiting in a glade where time forgets to pass. The forest animals play with her in the lush emerald colored meadow as she laughs. Flowers bloom beneath her bare feet. Her laughter is the music of moss and wind. He thinks she’ll vanish again if he blinks. Finally, her gaze meets his and she says, “Love,” she smiles, “is not a cage. It’s the wind that dares you to fly.” He steps to her and just as his arms are about to embrace her, her form turns into a flock of Starlings, and they circle him once and fly away. As they fly off, he hears her voice in the winged churned breeze, "find me Michael, find all of me."
The Time Weaver
Michael travels for days more, searching. He crosses a barren desert. He thinks he is going mad because he begins to hear the sound of ticking clocks in his head. In the middle of the desert, he finds a golden temple. He enters and realizes that the sound of the clockworks was coming from here. He follows the sounds of the ticking, and they grow louder until he enters a grand room and sees her there dressed and decorated in golden hues. He meets her in a realm of golden gears and forgotten dreams. He watches her. As she moves her hands, they spin the threads of past and future.
The Time Weaver
She shows him that to love her is to accept her story—all of it. The sorrow, the resilience, the joy, the change. Then suddenly the clocks tick in reverse. He sees who he is, who he was, and who he might yet be. She never tells him which is real. “Love is not a moment,” she whispers. “It’s a memory in motion.” Michael loses track of time, he is tired, and the sound of the clocks makes his eyes heavy. He falls asleep and when he awakens, she is gone, and the clocks are silent. He calls out to her his voice echoing through the halls. He suddenly hears ticking and looks down to see a golden pocket watch. He turns it over and sees the engraving. "Quick Michael, before it is too late you must find all of me."
The Siren Beneath the Ice
The Knight had grown weary as he had travelled far to the north to the frozen and icy realm. Michael had travelled much longer this time and was sure he had made a mistake when suddenly as his foot planted on the ice a large crack broke the silence. He held still but in an instance the ice shattered, and he fell into the frigid water below. He struggled to get to the surface, but the current was too strong. He fought and fought but to no avail. His eyes fluttered and he passed out.
The Siren Beneath the Ice
When he came to, he gasped. And found himself in a grand ice cave. And there she was dressed in ivory and as beautiful as he had ever seen her. But something was different. His heart felt so heavy. She was beauty and grief, longing and silence all in one. It is here that he almost turned away as he is overcome with sorrow. Her voice cracks the icy silence of the cave. “My love,” she said, “isn’t always safe or happy. It can be scary and at times it can be cold. But it’s always worth the plunge.” She beckons him closer, and he dares to reach for her. But just as he was about to touch her, she melted away.
Epilogue: The Woman Who Was Always Her
Michael made the long trek back to his realm feeling dejected and lost. His mind wandered back to the women he had met on his quest. He knew in the icy cave that he had failed as he called out to her many times and heard nothing from her this time. Then one day high on cliff overlooking his castle he heard a snap of a branch and turned towards the bordering forest behind him.
Epilogue: The Woman Who Was Always Her
There, he sees her. Not the Oracle. Not the Queen. Not the Enchantress, the Weaver, or the Siren. All of them. One woman — layered, complex, infinite. And he finally understands: Love isn’t one thing. She isn’t one thing. But she is everything.
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Instagram Isn’t What It Claims to Be — Let’s Talk About That

Instagram’s CEO, Adam Mosseri keeps saying the platform is about two things:

“Creativity and connecting with the people you care about.”

That sounds lovely. But the reality? It’s something else entirely. Let’s unpack both of these claims—and hold them up to the light.

"Creativity" — But Only If the Algorithm Approves

We’re told Instagram supports creativity. That it’s a place for artists, influencers, photographers, and dreamers. But here’s the truth:

Instagram doesn’t support creativity. It curates it.

Just like the record executives of the mid-20th century decided which artists got a shot at fame, Instagram’s algorithm now decides which creators get seen. You don’t get discovered for being original—you get discovered for being algorithmically optimized.

That’s not creative freedom. That’s creativity with strings attached.

If your art, your style, or your voice doesn’t fit the mold—if it’s too sexy, too raw, too real, too niche—it gets quietly suppressed. Shadowbanned. Buried.

Instagram promotes content that aligns with ad-friendly, brand-safe norms—not necessarily what’s bold, innovative, or artistically meaningful.

And let’s not forget: AI now governs what is “allowed” on the platform, enforcing vague “community guidelines” through machine learning filters that can’t understand context or intention.

Creativity? Instagram has turned it into a numbers game. A branding exercise. A filtered illusion.

Further, the platform encourages homogenization. It says “be yourself,” but the content that wins is often formulaic and trend-driven. The more unique you are, the more invisible you become.

True creativity challenges the status quo—Instagram’s algorithm buries that under what’s already familiar.

"Connecting with the People You Care About" — Really?

This one’s almost laughable—because Instagram’s design actively prevents you from connecting deeply.

Let’s look at the science.

Dunbar’s Number, a well-studied concept in anthropology, shows that humans can realistically maintain about 150–250 meaningful social relationships. That’s our cognitive limit. Beyond that, the quality of connection breaks down.

So if Instagram truly cared about helping us stay close to the people we love, they’d cap follower and following counts to reflect this reality. Maybe 250, max.

But they don’t.

Instead, they encourage infinite scaling. Tens of thousands. Hundreds of thousands. Millions of followers. Why? Because your “relationships” aren’t the product. Your attention is.

Instagram isn’t a digital dinner party—it’s a broadcast network.

It functions more like TV or radio than a tight-knit community. You post, and if the algorithm likes it, your content gets pushed out to the masses. You perform. They watch.

That’s not connection. That’s performance culture.

You’re not connecting. You’re performing—for hearts, not hugs.

Let's Go Even Deeper: Other Incongruities

Instagram Says: “Be Real”

But Rewards Facades. Filters are everywhere. Facetune culture is thriving. The pressure to post polished, curated content hasn’t disappeared—it’s just gone underground.

Instagram rewards performative authenticity, not actual vulnerability.

Instagram Says It's: "Empowering Creators"

But Fuels Comparison and Addiction. The platform is engineered for dopamine hits. Scroll traps. Vanity metrics. Creator burnout is common—and sometimes celebrated.

If Instagram cared about mental health, it would be less addictive—not more

Instagram Says: "You Control Your Experience"

But The Algorithm Is the Gatekeeper. You don’t choose what you see—the machine does. Even your own followers don’t always see your content.

Every interaction is mediated by machine logic.

Instagram Says: "Everyone Has a Voice"

But It’s Increasingly Pay-to-Play. Reach is throttled. Boosting is essential. Visibility is now often tied to ad spend or monetization deals.

The feed doesn’t reflect what’s best. It reflects what’s bankrolled.

Instagram Says: "We Support Community"

But Suppresses Controversial or Marginalized Voices. Content moderation is opaque, inconsistent, and frequently unfair. There’s no real appeals process. No transparency. No recourse.

True communities don’t exist where one side has all the power and no accountability.

So What Can We Do?

This isn’t a call to abandon Instagram. It’s a call to see it clearly.

Understand what the platform is—and what it isn’t. Know that it’s a stage, not a salon. A billboard, not a journal. Use it with intent, not illusion.

If you’re a creator: Make art that matters to you first. Use Instagram as a tool—not a validation machine. Build outside the platform. Own your content. Grow your audience in places where creativity isn’t controlled by a feed.

If you’re a follower: Be mindful of your attention. Don’t confuse likes for love or visibility for worth. Seek out creators who offer depth, not just dopamine.

If you’re a thinker, a rebel, a builder—let’s imagine and create better spaces. Platforms where creativity is unfiltered, connection is real, and authenticity isn’t gamified.

Instagram isn’t going to change. But we can change how we use it.

And that might just change everything.

Easter 2025 Steampunk Photo Shoot

Steam, Silk & Springtime: My Little Easter Fantasy

This Easter, I decided to trade pretty dresses and bonnets for something a little more… me. 🌸⚙️💜

I’ve always loved the idea of spring as a soft reset — a season where the light returns, the flowers bloom, and we get to reinvent ourselves just a little. This year, I let my imagination run wild. What if the Easter Bunny had a corset? What if spring softness came with brass buckles and lace?

Wrapped in lilac lingerie with golden gears glinting in the morning light, I stepped into a world where sweetness meets power. This look is my way of saying: I can be delicate and daring. Romantic and rebellious. A pastel dream with a steampunk soul.

Because sometimes Easter isn’t just about chocolate eggs — it’s about showing up in your full, radiant self… ears and all. 🐰💫

So here’s to mixing aesthetics, breaking molds, and bringing a little lace to the long weekend.
Happy Easter, my loves. May you bloom wildly — in whatever color, shape, or vibe makes you feel most you.

With all my love,
– Lairissa 💜
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If you liked my playful steampunk Easter vibes, you might enjoy my Fun Halloween Illustrations too!

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She’s Always a Woman – Grace in Her Gaze, Strength in Her Hands

There’s a certain magic in femininity that can’t be measured by numbers or metrics. It’s not something you scroll past. It lingers. It asks nothing, yet stays with you. That was the energy I wanted to capture in this image and in the feeling behind it.

When I first heard Billy Joel’s “She’s Always a Woman,” it struck a chord so deep I knew it would one day become a soundtrack to one of my moments. Not just because it’s romantic and wistful, but because it speaks to the complexity of being seen — fully seen — as a woman.

She can kill with a smile, she can wound with her eyes. And she does, sometimes.

But there is also tenderness in that strength. There’s resilience in softness. The quiet confidence in wearing lace, not for anyone else, but for herself. The decision to show up, beautiful and unapologetic, is not for approval. It’s a love letter to her own power.

I wrote this small verse to hold the spirit of that energy:

She’s the hush in the chaos, the calm in the storm,
A flame in the quiet that keeps herself warm.
Unfolding in beauty that nobody planned—
Grace in her gaze, and strength in her hands.

It’s about the woman who moves through the world with poise and fire, knowing that she doesn’t have to be loud to be powerful. She doesn’t have to conform to shine. She just has to be.

So here I am, in my element, sharing this moment with you. If this speaks to you—if you’ve ever felt the push and pull of being soft and strong at once—then I hope you feel seen here.

You are allowed to be both gentle and fierce. Delicate and determined. A whisper and a wildfire.

With love, always,
—Rissa xoxo

For a deeper look into love and admiration, read A Love Letter to Marcie.

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Cheer From Within: Why Your Inner Voice Matters Most

Sometimes the loudest encouragement doesn’t come from the crowd—it comes from within.

There’s a quiet, personal kind of power that blossoms when you learn to become your own cheerleader. It’s not always easy. In fact, some days, it feels like the world has gone quiet, and you’re left standing on the sidelines of your own life wondering if anyone sees your effort, your heart, your hustle.

That’s when your inner voice matters most.

When I created the images for this post, dressed as a cheerleader in a locker room, I wasn’t just playing a part. I was reminding myself of something I often forget: the importance of self-encouragement. The power of looking yourself in the mirror and saying, “I’ve got you.”

📣Why Being Your Own Cheerleader Is Essential

We live in a world where external validation is addictive. Likes, shares, comments, followers. It’s easy to fall into the trap of believing our worth is reflected in those metrics. But what happens when the numbers slow? When the applause fades? When the feedback doesn’t match the effort?

That’s when your inner cheerleader has to step in. She doesn’t wait for permission to speak. She claps loudly for your growth. She believes in your worth before the world does. And most importantly, she sticks around, even when things are quiet.

🔗How to Strengthen Your Inner Voice

  1. Affirmations That Feel Like Truth: Say things that ring true to your soul. Not just generic mantras, but personal reminders of your strength, your journey, your dreams.
  2. Celebrate Small Wins: Don’t wait for a milestone to feel proud. Every step, every effort, every choice to keep going deserves recognition.
  3. Talk to Yourself with Kindness: If you wouldn’t say it to a friend, don’t say it to yourself. Be the voice that lifts you, not one that tears you down.
  4. Visual Reminders: Whether it’s a sticky note on your mirror or a photo shoot that made you feel powerful, surround yourself with proof of your progress.
  5. Unfollow Negativity: Online and offline. Curate your digital and physical spaces to be supportive, inspiring, and real.

If you’re looking for encouragement during hard times, Creating Beauty in the Mess might inspire you.

🦁A Final Whisper - No Roar

You don’t need pom-poms or a uniform to cheer yourself on. You just need a heart that believes in you, even when it’s hard.

And if you ever need a cheerleader to borrow, know this: I’m rooting for you, too. Always.

With love, Rissa xoxo

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Wrapped in Light: A Morning in Robin Egg Blue

There’s something about soft light slipping through the curtains…
Something about a breeze that carries no weight — just a whisper of stillness.

That’s how this morning felt.

Wrapped in sheer turquoise and lace, I let myself slow down — not for the camera, not for the algorithm, but just… for me.

This wasn’t a planned shoot. Not exactly.
It started with coffee. A little music. A glance in the mirror that said, “Yes. Today, I feel beautiful.”

Not the loud kind of beautiful. The quiet kind.
The kind that says:
“I don’t need to be seen to know that I’m glowing.”
But today, I let myself be seen anyway.

Because sensuality isn’t always about seduction.
Sometimes, it’s just about softness.
About allowing space to breathe — to feel good in your skin — to wear something delicate just because it makes you smile.

And if you’re here reading this, you already know…
this isn’t just about lingerie.
It’s about choosing joy.
It’s about reclaiming confidence.
It’s about letting the morning sun remind you that you’re a whole story in a single photograph.

Thanks for spending a little time with me. 🩵

Until next time,
– Rissa xoxo

White Lace Confidence

Behind the Lingerie: Why I Choose to Be Seen

For a long time, I believed visibility had to be earned — through perfection, approval, or the right kind of modesty. But when I began modeling lingerie, I wasn’t just putting on delicate fabrics and posing for the camera — I was stepping into the deepest kind of self-acceptance I had ever known.

To some, lingerie is provocative. To others, it’s fashion. For me, it’s power. Not because it’s revealing, but because I choose what I reveal. I choose when, how, and why. And in that choice lies my freedom.

This journey didn’t start out with confidence. It started with curiosity — and a quiet hunger to reclaim a body I had been taught to shrink. Wearing lingerie became a way to rewrite my story. Every strap, every curve, every gaze into the camera was a declaration: “This is me. Unapologetic. Unfiltered. Unafraid.”

There’s a myth that women who share photos like mine are doing it for attention. Maybe sometimes that’s true. But for me, it’s about intention — the intention to own my femininity, to honor my sensuality, and to challenge the idea that being seen means being less.

When I post a photo in a beautiful lace set, I’m not asking to be objectified. I’m asking to be witnessed. There’s a difference. One reduces me. The other sees me.

Behind the lingerie, I’m still the same woman — the one who cries when her heart hurts, who lights up at the first snow, who writes love letters she’ll never send. The lace doesn’t cover those things. It highlights them.

This isn’t just about lingerie. It’s about liberation. It’s about choosing visibility on my terms — in a world that constantly tries to decide what’s “appropriate” for women to share, to wear, or to feel good in.

So yes, I wear lingerie. I post it. I celebrate it. Not because it defines me, but because it reflects me.

And if my softness, strength, or sensuality makes someone uncomfortable — that’s okay. I didn’t dress for them. I dressed for the woman I’ve become.

— Rissa

If you want to read more about embracing your beauty online, check out my post Real Me vs. Digital Me.

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Is Instagram Suppressing My Reach… on Purpose?

If you’ve been feeling like your posts just aren’t being seen anymore — you’re not alone. Many creators, myself included, have experienced sudden drops in engagement, flatlined follower growth, and the eerie sense that we’re shouting into the void.

It’s led to a question that’s been on my mind for a while:

Is Instagram suppressing reach on purpose to push creators into paying for ads?

Let’s explore this together.

🤳 The Creator’s Dilemma

When your livelihood or passion project lives online — every like, comment, and follow matters. So when your content suddenly stops reaching people, it’s not just confusing… it’s personal.

Creators have noticed things like:

  • Posts that used to soar now barely make a ripple.

  • Boosting a post seems to result in less organic reach afterward.

  • Organic follower growth stalls — even when the content is stronger than ever.

If you’ve ever thought:

“It’s like Instagram wants me to pay just to get seen…”

You’re not alone.

📲 What Instagram Says (And Doesn’t Say)

Instagram officially denies suppressing reach to force ad spend. According to their documentation:

In a June 2021 (updated in 2023) blog post titled “Shedding More Light on How Instagram Works,” Instagram’s head, Adam Mosseri, explains that the platform uses a variety of algorithms, classifiers, and processes, each with its own purpose, to personalize user experience. He emphasizes that the algorithm rewards engagement, relevance, and timeliness, and that business accounts aren’t penalized just for being business accounts.

Additionally, a recent article from Business Insider highlights insights from Adam Mosseri, where he discusses key factors for increasing reach on Instagram, such as focusing on posting to the main feed, encouraging content sharing via direct messages, and leveraging improved SEO capabilities. This article is behind a paywall, but I include it here for completeness.

So the gist is this:

  • The algorithm rewards engagement, consistency, and relevance.

  • Business accounts aren’t penalized just for being business accounts.

  • Ads and organic content are evaluated separately in the feed.

That’s the story — but does it tell the whole truth?

💰 Why It Feels Like Pay-to-Play

Let’s be honest: Instagram’s entire business model is ad revenue.

So, while they may not directly suppress your reach, the system they’ve built:

  • Prioritizes paid content (because it’s guaranteed to get seen).
  • Filters feeds more aggressively than ever, burying content that doesn’t immediately perform.
  • Pushes creators to rely on boosts just to maintain the visibility they once had for free.

In other words:

The algorithm isn’t punishing you — but it is working exactly as designed.

🔄 And Then There’s the Algorithm Cycle…

Here’s what often happens:

  1. You post something you’re proud of — it flops.
  2. You boost it. You get followers.
  3. Next post? No engagement again.
  4. You start to feel invisible unless you pay.

It’s a cycle that can leave you burnt out, discouraged, and doubting yourself. And that’s the real harm.

When creators say, “The algorithm is punishing me,” it often comes from a place of frustration — a drop in reach, fewer likes, disappearing followers. It feels personal. Emotional. Like you’re doing something wrong.

But the truth is:
The algorithm isn’t punishing you. It’s simply doing what it was built to do — keep people on the app.

Instagram’s algorithm is designed with one core goal in mind: maximize user engagement and time spent on the platform. To do that, it constantly analyzes what content performs best with individual users, and then prioritizes delivering similar content to them.

So, what does that mean for you?

  • If your content keeps viewers watching, swiping, or commenting, you’ll likely be rewarded with more reach.

  • If your followers scroll past, don’t engage, or share your content — you’ll slowly start getting pushed out of their feeds.

But here’s the hard part:
The algorithm doesn’t consider your hard work, your creativity, your vulnerability, or your passion. It isn’t personal — but it sure feels personal. Because what it’s really doing is:

👉 Measuring behavior.
👉 Prioritizing what gets the most attention.
👉 Constantly testing and tweaking what it shows.

And, let’s be honest — Instagram is a business.
If organic reach starts to slow, what’s the next logical step? Paid promotion. And many creators report that once they start running ads, their organic reach seems to dip unless they keep paying. Whether that’s by design or not, it certainly aligns with the business model.

So no, the algorithm isn’t “punishing” you for skipping a day of posting or experimenting with a new style. But it is always adapting — and it favors consistency, shareability, and content that feeds the endless scroll.

💡 What We Can Do About It

This isn’t a hopeless story — it’s a call to recalibrate.

Here’s how I’m shifting:

Most of all:

You’re not your metrics. You’re more than your follower count.

💬 Final Thoughts

Is Instagram suppressing your reach to force you into ads?

Maybe not overtly. But the system is rigged in favor of ad spend — and that’s worth talking about. Not to discourage you… but to help you reclaim your power as a creator.

So if you’ve felt unseen lately, this is your reminder: you are not alone. And you are not failing.

You’re navigating a platform that rewards money, not always merit. But your voice — and your value — go far beyond the algorithm.

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Using Instagram Ads Strategically (Not Desperately)

When your organic reach on Instagram starts to dip, it’s tempting to panic and hit that “Boost” button just to stay seen. But ads don’t have to feel like a last resort. In fact, used strategically, they can become a powerful tool to support your growth without draining your energy or your budget.

Here’s how to approach Instagram ads with clarity and confidence:

💡 1. Start with Purpose — Not Panic

Don’t run an ad just because a post flopped or engagement is slow. Ask yourself:

  • What do I want this ad to do?

    • Drive profile visits?
    • Gain new followers?
    • Promote a product or subscription?
    • Increase brand awareness?

Clarity in your goal is the foundation of success.

🎯 2. Boost What’s Already Working

Instead of guessing what will perform, amplify what already does well. Look at your posts with high reach, saves, shares, or engagement.

If your existing audience responded well, a broader audience probably will too.

  • Pro Tip: Pick content that instantly communicates your brand’s vibe and value. First impressions count.

🧢 3. Test Small — Then Scale

Start with a modest daily budget (like $5–$10) and test different audiences:

  • Custom Audiences: Target people who’ve engaged with your content.

  • Lookalike Audiences: Let Instagram find users similar to your followers.

  • Interest-Based Audiences: Tap into specific niches (fashion, fitness, photography, etc.).

Watch performance and optimize before you invest more.

📈 4. Optimize for Profile Visits — And Make Your Profile Count

One of the most effective ad goals is “Profile Visits.” But once they land on your profile, what do they see?

  • A bio that communicates who you are and what you offer?

  • Pinned posts that showcase your best content?

  • A cohesive aesthetic or message that invites them to follow?

Ads can get them to your door. But your content is what invites them in.

🔁 5. Ads Are a Spark — Not the Whole Fire

Use ads to:

  • Launch a new look, campaign, or collaboration.

  • Reignite momentum after a slow week.

  • Reach new potential followers after a viral moment.

But let your long-term growth come from your connection with your audience, your creativity, and your consistency.

☀️ Final Thought

Running ads isn’t cheating. It’s not desperate. It’s a tool — and like any tool, it works best in steady hands.

Use them intentionally. Experiment with joy. Build something you’re proud of.

And remember: the algorithm doesn’t own your worth.

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Creating Beauty in the Middle of the Mess

There are days when everything feels too much—when the world spins a little too fast and your heart can’t quite keep up. I’ve had a lot of those days lately.

Between health scares, uncertainty, and the quiet ache of self-doubt, it would be easy to let go of the creative part of me. The one that dreams in color and believes that beauty still matters, even when the world feels heavy.

But I haven’t let go. And I don’t plan to.

Because creating isn’t just something I do—it’s part of how I survive. It’s how I remember who I am, especially when everything around me feels like it’s unraveling.

This month, I found myself clinging to beauty like a lifeline. Sometimes it was as simple as soft morning light filtering through curtains. Other times, it was putting on something that made me feel radiant even when I didn’t feel strong. And often, it was picking up my mind’s eye AI camera and saying, This moment deserves to be seen.

One of my favorite images I created recently was on a hard day. I was tired. I was scared. But something inside whispered, try anyway. I set the scene. I found the light. And I stepped into it. Not because I felt perfect. But because I felt real.

And that was enough.

What I want you to know is this: your beauty, your creativity, your light—they’re not things you earn by being “okay.”

They’re already inside you. Especially in the mess.

So if you’re having a rough day, or a rough season, please don’t wait until you have it all together to create. Or to show up. Or to feel beautiful.

Create because it’s messy. Create because you don’t know what tomorrow holds. Create because you are still here, and that’s a miracle in itself.

With softness and strength,

— Rissa